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I just recieved all 5 volumes of my Salty Dog books, now i see what the fuss is all about they are some fabulous art works in them all.

Now it can't just be me last friday my baby girl comes home criing and i ask her what was wrong it seems some little asshole has been sexually harrassing her for some time now but it came to a head on friday the whole school bus was aware of this but no one said anything to me until friday past.

I called the school immediately and reported what had transpired on the bus so a meeting was set up for monday that just passed and we some what resolved it the boy got a principal expulsion,he cannot be near my daughter for the rest of the school year.

Now you may wonder why i post this up here family business and all,see my baby girl is 8 yrs old and in 3rd grade the boy i refer to is in 2cd grade but he is much bigger than she is and ha had an associate so basically they tried to double team her, but their was a 5th grader on the bus who thank all that is in heaven intervend on her behalf and put a stop to it.

I thank her everyday that i see her.

she brings the girls home when school lets out and they get on the bus together in the mornings and the afternoon. But has this ever happened to anyone you know or perhaps someone in your family? It just boggles the mind that at that age they would sexually harass someone, what in the blue blazes should a 7/8 yr old know about shit like that.

A teenager i could see that happening too, but elementary school age children shouldn't know about things like that unfortunately me and mrs phish the principal agree either this boy is being molested or he is seeing something going on in his house that he should not be seeing.

Anyway that does not excuse him from doing /acting on it with my baby i could easily had been in jail because i saw red after that i wanted to whip that boys ass till my soul got happy and right now medically wise i'm not a happy camper with my health and everything else going on in my life sch as it is.

Date: 2008-09-25 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xiayou.livejournal.com
You and the principal are right. At that age, he had to have seen that somewhere or had those acts done to him. I'm glad that your baby is safe now and that the boy is expelled.

I've always wanted those Salty Dog books. The art work is beautiful.

Date: 2008-09-25 03:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cornerofmadness.livejournal.com
this is very sad and I'm glad there was someone to intervene

ui!

Date: 2008-09-25 04:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gilliotina.livejournal.com
Well, it's not nice when kids in primary school start with sexual harrassment. Most kids in my country know about sex, even at this age, but they are seldom tempted to actually use their knowledge. Young kids usually tease with facts like "being disabled" (my sibs could "sing songs" about it) or poverty. Maybe the principal should have an eye on this boy. I'm happy this never happened to my sis, being bullied in school was common when she was in primary school, cause she has only one eye (how silly)- but sexual harrassment is though stuff, and school bus trips can be very long.

Date: 2008-09-25 12:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gen50.livejournal.com
i just wanted to wish you well,
and to tell you to breathe deeply

it helps with the stress.
you take care

Date: 2008-09-25 07:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] orvida.livejournal.com
I'm triing but what's really ,bothering me for the last 2 nights i felt as if i was dyiing i couldn't breathe. My airway passage felt blocked and i took my treatment for asyhma and i still couldn't breathe keith was beside himself because i refused to go to the hospital. They more than likely would have did what i was doing with the nebulizer and the medication no difference at all.

I had back to back Dr's appointments anyway so going to the hospital serves no purpose for me.Just to be sent home.

Anyway i saw the neurologist this morning and even through it doesn't look to good for me i'm going to do whatever i have to to get better well as much as can be expected, now i saw my medical Dr and her and i agree i must get my T-levels down (thyroid) in case your wondering as it is when i did my blood work it came back 35.10 which is death my body is over producing iodine which inturn is affecting every other vital organ(s) not to make light of it but i'm not ready to pass on yet i want to make sure all of my babies are dam near grown before i go anywhere.

Now on to the other part, my daughter shakeitha the 8 y.o that was being harassed is getting counseling some how she thinks she did something wrong because she was the only one this prick was bothering and i keep reasuring her she didn't under no circumstances do anything wrong!

Our next step is to meet with this boys parent(s) because his friends are threatening her for his expulsion, they are to young to understand the seriousness of what this boy has done to my baby girl and i'm getting beyond the word pissed off. I might have to send her father in my place and i don't think that they are ready for that at all. I'm the only one who can reign in that temper of his but the question is do i really want too!

To the replies that i did recieve i thank you for your understanding, but truth be told i would rather some one bullied her, she at least knows how to defend her self from that her dad is a second degree black belt going on to 3rd degree. But the only problem is she's not a fighter by choice so it's a catch 22 on her, and legally i can't endorse her to go out and willingly hurt some one no matter how i feel about the situation. So now i'm back to square one.
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