Yeah i'm very proud of them all even if they might think otherwise.
It's just hard for me to show them that they mean the world to me and i just want to keep them safe from all of the bad things going on outside of my control.
You know all parents to an exstinct should feel that way but truthfully not every one is not parent material.
They have just convicted nixmary brown's mother for not protecting her.
And i would lay my life on the line for my children as i've said before i will not do it in vain, in other words for nothing stupid.
Do they hear you praise them to other adults whom they know you respect? I had a friend in college, a grad student who was much older than I was. She had two children (she was a widow who had gone back to school), and I was very taken with the way she praised them to us when the kids could hear. I make sure I do that with mine when she deserves it - I think it's extra-effective because they know you mean it very seriously that way.
All the time people compliment me on how well behaved and polite and respectful my children are and i let them know i don't play with my children.
I will chastise them in a second especially with the younger one's.
Always show respect no matter what and than come and get me and i will deal with the adults.
I don't say anything to no one's else's kids or that could possibly start a fight, you can't say anything to some kids out here and thats sad really because alot of these kids are not being raised up they are being dragged up and there's a big difference.
So in answer to your question yes i speak very highly of all my children to everyone that i speak too definitely.
orvida, I don't mean to mess in your business or criticize or anything - that was just in response to your comment to avierra that you are proud of them "even if they might think otherwise ... It's just hard for me to show them that they mean the world to me."
(This is one of the things that I hate electronic communications for - you can't see the other person's face so a lot of the emotional context gets lost.)
Yeah when i wrote that my babies were all standing over me watching what i wrote. Believe me when i say that i love my children unconditionally i mean that in all senses of the words and actions.
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Date: 2008-10-19 07:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-10-19 09:34 pm (UTC)It's just hard for me to show them that they mean the world to me and i just want to keep them safe from all of the bad things going on outside of my control.
You know all parents to an exstinct should feel that way but truthfully not every one is not parent material.
They have just convicted nixmary brown's mother for not protecting her.
And i would lay my life on the line for my children as i've said before i will not do it in vain, in other words for nothing stupid.
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Date: 2008-10-20 01:56 am (UTC)Mazel tov!!
Do they hear you praise them to other adults whom they know you respect? I had a friend in college, a grad student who was much older than I was. She had two children (she was a widow who had gone back to school), and I was very taken with the way she praised them to us when the kids could hear. I make sure I do that with mine when she deserves it - I think it's extra-effective because they know you mean it very seriously that way.
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Date: 2008-10-20 02:52 am (UTC)I will chastise them in a second especially with the younger one's.
Always show respect no matter what and than come and get me and i will deal with the adults.
I don't say anything to no one's else's kids or that could possibly start a fight, you can't say anything to some kids out here and thats sad really because alot of these kids are not being raised up they are being dragged up and there's a big difference.
So in answer to your question yes i speak very highly of all my children to everyone that i speak too definitely.
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Date: 2008-10-20 11:14 am (UTC)orvida, I don't mean to mess in your business or criticize or anything - that was just in response to your comment to avierra that you are proud of them "even if they might think otherwise ... It's just hard for me to show them that they mean the world to me."
(This is one of the things that I hate electronic communications for - you can't see the other person's face so a lot of the emotional context gets lost.)
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Date: 2008-10-20 06:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-10-20 02:15 pm (UTC)no subject
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