Is life really worth living?
Jun. 12th, 2008 10:19 amOkay thanks for responding even if you have no children of you own i'm willing to read any and all info. so thanks again.
As far as anything goes i'm the youngest of 7. And truthfuly my family is of no help all they do is critersise me and my handling of the situation or worst lay the blame at my feet.
As far sitting them down and talking to them i did that with 12 psychologists and yet they made it seem as if my children problems lye with me, and i'm willing to a degree accept resposibility for that, but in the same breahe i must reirate they are not stupid kids my daughter wants to be a lawyer she makes the grades in school and was offered an internship at a very respectable law firm in new jersey, for the summer and get paid for it.
My son at one time wanted to be a storm chaser he watches the discovery channel go figure. And i always encourage them to go further than i had to make something of their lives to get out of the ghetto asap don't get caught up in all of this bullshit out here drugs, gangs etc because their is a better way of life out their they just have to reach for it and i'll support them an anyway i can but ultlimately it's up to them to achieve it.
But i'll try what you suggested and i'll let you know one way or the other if it's working or not.< lol>
Oh my way ward daughter returned not to long ago i just told her to take the other 4 outside i need some me time now.
As far as anything goes i'm the youngest of 7. And truthfuly my family is of no help all they do is critersise me and my handling of the situation or worst lay the blame at my feet.
As far sitting them down and talking to them i did that with 12 psychologists and yet they made it seem as if my children problems lye with me, and i'm willing to a degree accept resposibility for that, but in the same breahe i must reirate they are not stupid kids my daughter wants to be a lawyer she makes the grades in school and was offered an internship at a very respectable law firm in new jersey, for the summer and get paid for it.
My son at one time wanted to be a storm chaser he watches the discovery channel go figure. And i always encourage them to go further than i had to make something of their lives to get out of the ghetto asap don't get caught up in all of this bullshit out here drugs, gangs etc because their is a better way of life out their they just have to reach for it and i'll support them an anyway i can but ultlimately it's up to them to achieve it.
But i'll try what you suggested and i'll let you know one way or the other if it's working or not.< lol>
Oh my way ward daughter returned not to long ago i just told her to take the other 4 outside i need some me time now.
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Date: 2008-06-13 03:41 am (UTC)and hopefully your kids also mature
so if they dont understand the talks now, they will later