I need help

[orvida]

I just installed aol9.0 yeah i'm a johnny come lately with it i think that's why my computer kept locking me out because of the program i was under anyway i went to manage friends and i see the green arrow is for people who have friended me and the blue arrow is for me to friend people back.  so here's my problem how do i friend everyone back without taking them off my friends list that is the farthest thing from my mind because i enjoy being on everyone's friends list so how do i add myself to the friends list without  taking some one off by accident? can anyone out there be of service to me in my time of need? geri